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Do you get off on the pleasures of watching or being watched? Want to do something really hot? Consider dipping your toe into the world of kink. A voyeuristic or exhibitionist experience can expand the boundaries of your current relationship. It’s also a good way for partners to experiment with bisexuality, erotic flexibility and non-monogamy.⁣
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Ever sought pleasure in public places like doing it in a car — knowing you might be seen… or on a balcony of a hotel? You may not have realized it but, that’s vanilla exhibitionism. Spying on a neighbor or even watching porn are voyeuristic in nature.⁣
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So, for clarity, here’s our definition of what each is:⁣
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Voyeurism is the act of obtaining sexual satisfaction from watching other people have sex or doing what would be considered private deeds. It’s watching rather than doing – it does not require interaction or involvement with other people.⁣
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Exhibitionism is self-disclosure. An exhibitionist likes to play while others are watching. It’s the process of making one self-known to others- extravagant behavior that is intended to attract attention to oneself. Exhibitionist have a desire to be in the open and to share in atmospheric energy. ⁣
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So, which tendencies are more you? Are you a voyeur? Or, an exhibitionist?⁣
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Note: Yes, that’s an eye-catching picture but we are not talking about a surreptitious, nonconsensual picture up a woman’s skirt, not only is that NOT 🚫 hot; but it’s likely criminal and downright creepy if the person doesn’t know it’s being done. ⁣
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#FemaleFantasies⁣
#Voyeurism⁣
#SexualExploration⁣
#fetish⁣
#upskirting⁣
#threesome⁣
#polyamorous⁣
#fantasy⁣
#kink⁣
#cuckholding⁣
#swingers⁣
#OpenRelationship⁣
#snoop⁣
#taboo⁣
#GenderBending⁣
#exhibitionist⁣ 🎥
#VibeWithUs⁣ 〰️〰️
#thealluringviolet⁣ 💜💜💜
Do you get off on the pleasures of watching or being watched? Want to do something really hot? Consider dipping your toe into the world of kink. A voyeuristic or exhibitionist experience can expand the boundaries of your current relationship. It’s also a good way for partners to experiment with bisexuality, erotic flexibility and non-monogamy.⁣ ⁣ Ever sought pleasure in public places like doing it in a car — knowing you might be seen… or on a balcony of a hotel? You may not have realized it but, that’s vanilla exhibitionism. Spying on a neighbor or even watching porn are voyeuristic in nature.⁣ ⁣ So, for clarity, here’s our definition of what each is:⁣ ⁣ Voyeurism is the act of obtaining sexual satisfaction from watching other people have sex or doing what would be considered private deeds. It’s watching rather than doing – it does not require interaction or involvement with other people.⁣ ⁣ Exhibitionism is self-disclosure. An exhibitionist likes to play while others are watching. It’s the process of making one self-known to others- extravagant behavior that is intended to attract attention to oneself. Exhibitionist have a desire to be in the open and to share in atmospheric energy. ⁣ ⁣ So, which tendencies are more you? Are you a voyeur? Or, an exhibitionist?⁣ ⁣ Note: Yes, that’s an eye-catching picture but we are not talking about a surreptitious, nonconsensual picture up a woman’s skirt, not only is that NOT 🚫 hot; but it’s likely criminal and downright creepy if the person doesn’t know it’s being done. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #FemaleFantasies⁣ #Voyeurism⁣ #SexualExploration⁣ #fetish⁣ #upskirting⁣ #threesome⁣ #polyamorous⁣ #fantasy⁣ #kink⁣ #cuckholding⁣ #swingers⁣ #OpenRelationship⁣ #snoop⁣ #taboo⁣ #GenderBending⁣ #exhibitionist⁣ 🎥 #VibeWithUs⁣ 〰️〰️ #thealluringviolet⁣ 💜💜💜
Does sex while under the influence positively or negatively affect your sexual experiences?⁣
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Does alcohol affect your sexual arousal and make you a low performer? Or do a few drinks or glasses of wine make you “less excitable” allowing you to go and go? Do you go from being a sexual introvert to an animal? “Leave the lights on IDGAF!”⁣
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Or, does it devolve from drinking, to sloppy, drunk sex and is a complete disaster. (But, hey if it’s terrible you’ll have an obvious excuse.)⁣
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Alcohol is a curious thing. What may seem like the worst idea when sober can seem like the best thing ever when drunk. Alcohol tends to take the edge off and acts as a social lubricant — it increases sexual courage, and make you feel sexaaayy. ⁣
Yes, a drink or two can strip you of your inhibitions, decrease anxiety and make you more relaxed and less inhibited. And yes, you’re likely to have more adventurous sex — opening yourself up (literally) to things you wouldn't normally do.⁣
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But, before you go a sip too far, remember that alcohol can blur the lines of consent. Careful that you don’t put yourself in any tricky situations. No one wants to be put on blast for starring in their own sex tape or end up with a criminal record for misreading the signs.  #TheMoreYouKnow⁣ 🌈⭐
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#ThirstyThursday⁣
#wine⁣ 🍷
#vino⁣ 🍷
#cocktails⁣ 🍸🍹
#Dranks⁣
#WhiskeyDick ⁣ 🥃🍆
#thong⁣
#DrunkSex⁣
#sexaaay⁣
#BeerGoggles⁣ 🍺🤓
#SocialLubricant⁣
#SexualLube⁣ 
#SafeSex⁣
#VibeWithUs⁣ 〰️〰️
#thealluringviolet⁣ 💜💜💜
Does sex while under the influence positively or negatively affect your sexual experiences?⁣ ⁣ Does alcohol affect your sexual arousal and make you a low performer? Or do a few drinks or glasses of wine make you “less excitable” allowing you to go and go? Do you go from being a sexual introvert to an animal? “Leave the lights on IDGAF!”⁣ ⁣ Or, does it devolve from drinking, to sloppy, drunk sex and is a complete disaster. (But, hey if it’s terrible you’ll have an obvious excuse.)⁣ ⁣ Alcohol is a curious thing. What may seem like the worst idea when sober can seem like the best thing ever when drunk. Alcohol tends to take the edge off and acts as a social lubricant — it increases sexual courage, and make you feel sexaaayy. ⁣ Yes, a drink or two can strip you of your inhibitions, decrease anxiety and make you more relaxed and less inhibited. And yes, you’re likely to have more adventurous sex — opening yourself up (literally) to things you wouldn't normally do.⁣ ⁣ But, before you go a sip too far, remember that alcohol can blur the lines of consent. Careful that you don’t put yourself in any tricky situations. No one wants to be put on blast for starring in their own sex tape or end up with a criminal record for misreading the signs. #TheMoreYouKnow⁣ 🌈⭐ ⁣ ⁣ #ThirstyThursday⁣ #wine⁣ 🍷 #vino⁣ 🍷 #cocktails⁣ 🍸🍹 #Dranks⁣ #WhiskeyDick ⁣ 🥃🍆 #thong⁣ #DrunkSex⁣ #sexaaay⁣ #BeerGoggles⁣ 🍺🤓 #SocialLubricant⁣ #SexualLube⁣ #SafeSex⁣ #VibeWithUs⁣ 〰️〰️ #thealluringviolet⁣ 💜💜💜
You start out super strong. Hot and heavy, head-over-heels, totally infatuated and you can’t get enough of each other.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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You’ve moved in together or gotten married.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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Now you’re in the thick of an official LTR (long term relationship) and overtime a demanding work schedule, kids and everyday stresses can shift romance to the back burner.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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Living with your love definitely comes with perks but also some real challenges.⁣⁣ The predictability of your partners responses and routine can make your bae seem less exciting. Working different shifts or having a schedule that doesn’t meet up can cause you to slip into living separate lives even when cohabitating. There are times you may feel like things have gotten stale and the relationship has lost its spark—All perfectly normal.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do something about it. While you may have hit an inevitable lull in the relationship, don’t lose focus on what brought you together. •

Escape the sexual fade by nurturing one another and make staying connected a priority. Seek out fresh ways to reenergize your relationship and rekindle the romance.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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5 Tips to getting it Sha-Poppin 🎉 again:⁣⁣ ⁣ ⤵️•
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• Small gestures like giving your partner a compliment or a sexy stare down cost nothing and can easily make the sparks fly again.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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• Netflix and chilling is ok but every once in a while, mix things up by inviting another couple over for drinks or games. This also helps you maintain your social life which can be hard to do.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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• To continue to grow together you can’t each other for granted. Put the same effort into planning and impressing your bae as you did in the beginning. A date night will give you a change in scenery and the opportunity to GTFO and share something new together.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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• Take risks and push one another to try new things that you otherwise wouldn’t be brave enough to do without each other’s support.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣
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• Don’t forget to take care of yourself. If you can’t help yourself, you’re no good to anyone else. Take time out for you. Alone time can be therapeutic and just as beneficial to the relationship as “we time.”⁣⁣
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#VibeWithUs〰️〰
#thealluringviolet💜
You start out super strong. Hot and heavy, head-over-heels, totally infatuated and you can’t get enough of each other.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • You’ve moved in together or gotten married.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • Now you’re in the thick of an official LTR (long term relationship) and overtime a demanding work schedule, kids and everyday stresses can shift romance to the back burner.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • Living with your love definitely comes with perks but also some real challenges.⁣⁣ The predictability of your partners responses and routine can make your bae seem less exciting. Working different shifts or having a schedule that doesn’t meet up can cause you to slip into living separate lives even when cohabitating. There are times you may feel like things have gotten stale and the relationship has lost its spark—All perfectly normal.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do something about it. While you may have hit an inevitable lull in the relationship, don’t lose focus on what brought you together. • Escape the sexual fade by nurturing one another and make staying connected a priority. Seek out fresh ways to reenergize your relationship and rekindle the romance.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • 5 Tips to getting it Sha-Poppin 🎉 again:⁣⁣ ⁣ ⤵️• • • Small gestures like giving your partner a compliment or a sexy stare down cost nothing and can easily make the sparks fly again.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • • Netflix and chilling is ok but every once in a while, mix things up by inviting another couple over for drinks or games. This also helps you maintain your social life which can be hard to do.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • • To continue to grow together you can’t each other for granted. Put the same effort into planning and impressing your bae as you did in the beginning. A date night will give you a change in scenery and the opportunity to GTFO and share something new together.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • • Take risks and push one another to try new things that you otherwise wouldn’t be brave enough to do without each other’s support.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ • • Don’t forget to take care of yourself. If you can’t help yourself, you’re no good to anyone else. Take time out for you. Alone time can be therapeutic and just as beneficial to the relationship as “we time.”⁣⁣ • #VibeWithUs〰️〰 #thealluringviolet💜
We are way into the full swing of summer and it’s gonna be another scorching hot weekend. The high heat and humidity can be a drag, but that doesn’t mean you lust life has to suffer. So, what do you do when the heat and humidity come out to play? •

Check out our 7 best Summer sex hacks to stay cool when things are heating up: ⤵️ •

1.  Try and exhilarating, cool pre-game shower… for two. 
2.  Minimize skin to skin contact during sex. Explore Sex positions made for summer — standing doggy is a great option. #YogaPayoff 🤸🏽‍♀️ •
3.  Ice up the oral. Let a piece of ice melt in your mouth as you run your lips across your partners erogenous zones.🌬 •
4.  Spritz! Keep a spray bottle full of icy cold water (or for extra points chilled white wine or rose water) next to your bed. Hit yourself and/or your partner with an refreshing, arctic blast of cool when things start getting really hot. 
5.  Temperature play! Put you sex toys, whips and chains in the freezer. Cold metal is especially delicious next to skin. 
6.  If you have a large stone island in your kitchen you are one lucky duck. The feel of cold marble or granite against your back is definitely one to experience. 
7.  When your all hot and bothered but don’t want to be bothered- grab your secret weapon (aka favorite sex toy). You get off without breaking a sweat. •

#SexInTheSummer
#BeatTheHeat
#summer🌞
#sex
#SexToy
#sweat
#StickySweet
#LustLife
#yoga
#DownwardDog
#HotAF
#chill
#PleasureMechanics
#SummerLovin
#FriYay🥳
#Friday
#VibeWithUs 〰️〰️
#TheAlluringViolet 💜💜💜
We are way into the full swing of summer and it’s gonna be another scorching hot weekend. The high heat and humidity can be a drag, but that doesn’t mean you lust life has to suffer. So, what do you do when the heat and humidity come out to play? • Check out our 7 best Summer sex hacks to stay cool when things are heating up: ⤵️ • 1.  Try and exhilarating, cool pre-game shower… for two. 2.  Minimize skin to skin contact during sex. Explore Sex positions made for summer — standing doggy is a great option. #YogaPayoff 🤸🏽‍♀️ • 3.  Ice up the oral. Let a piece of ice melt in your mouth as you run your lips across your partners erogenous zones.🌬 • 4.  Spritz! Keep a spray bottle full of icy cold water (or for extra points chilled white wine or rose water) next to your bed. Hit yourself and/or your partner with an refreshing, arctic blast of cool when things start getting really hot. 5.  Temperature play! Put you sex toys, whips and chains in the freezer. Cold metal is especially delicious next to skin. 6.  If you have a large stone island in your kitchen you are one lucky duck. The feel of cold marble or granite against your back is definitely one to experience. 7.  When your all hot and bothered but don’t want to be bothered- grab your secret weapon (aka favorite sex toy). You get off without breaking a sweat. • #SexInTheSummer #BeatTheHeat #summer🌞 #sex #SexToy #sweat #StickySweet #LustLife #yoga #DownwardDog #HotAF #chill #PleasureMechanics #SummerLovin #FriYay🥳 #Friday #VibeWithUs 〰️〰️ #TheAlluringViolet 💜💜💜