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@thealluringviolet

Don’t know who this is for but it’s for someone... •
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You just started dating a guy/gal & everything is new and exciting. You’re crazy in lust, drunk in love and everything is blissful. You could spend every waking moment together and they can do no wrong in your eyes. Nothing matters as long as boo is around. Ok. Stop! •
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Don’t let the excitement consume you entirely. Eventually, that “new relationship feeling”- you know, that rush of sunshine, stars, hearts, and rainbows will slow, and you’ll be wondering why he/she doesn’t text you quite as much? •
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It’s ok boo… just because you don’t get a call every 5 minutes doesn’t mean that you're not top of mind. Nothing wrong with putting yourself out there, taking charge & letting ‘em know what you want… but don’t become a cling-on. •
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Here are 10 tips that will help you stay grounded and keep you sane while you traverse new relationship waters. 🚣‍♂️ From us to you, our bestie!👭 •
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We know the thirst is real but stop blowing up his/her phone •
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Don’t be available all-the-time. Keep your own interests. • •
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If you get an invite over know when to leave. It's time to go long before they start dropping hints. • •
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In the early stages a marriage and kids convo is a no-go… save it • •
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Don’t sacrifice much needed alone time or time with your (vibrator) ehem, friends for more face time with him/her. (Yes, guys use vibrators too)
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Texting too early in the morning is a sin. You can’t tell me that you have nothing else to think about 1st thing in the morning than a girl or guy you just met? •
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Don’t be fugazi. Trying to act like you like everything s/he’s into… it just plain tired •
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Don’t spend money you don’t have or buy gifts/presents for no reason •
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Please don’t invite them to a function or introduce them to your friends or family too early •
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Last but not least… please don’t do the thirstiest of all thirsty moves and send/post scandalous pictures of yourself (might delete later) 🤣 •
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#ThirstyThursday
#tea 🍵
#ThirstyAF
#parched🏜
#Pressed
#DoingTheMost
#NoChill
#StopCheckingYourPhone 👉👉👉 🛑✔🙅🏻‍♀️📱
#BrandNew 
#love 💗
#vibrator
#newrelationship ♀️♂️♀️♀️♂️♂️
#thealluringviolet 💜💜💜
Don’t know who this is for but it’s for someone... • • You just started dating a guy/gal & everything is new and exciting. You’re crazy in lust, drunk in love and everything is blissful. You could spend every waking moment together and they can do no wrong in your eyes. Nothing matters as long as boo is around. Ok. Stop! • • Don’t let the excitement consume you entirely. Eventually, that “new relationship feeling”- you know, that rush of sunshine, stars, hearts, and rainbows will slow, and you’ll be wondering why he/she doesn’t text you quite as much? • • It’s ok boo… just because you don’t get a call every 5 minutes doesn’t mean that you're not top of mind. Nothing wrong with putting yourself out there, taking charge & letting ‘em know what you want… but don’t become a cling-on. • • Here are 10 tips that will help you stay grounded and keep you sane while you traverse new relationship waters. 🚣‍♂️ From us to you, our bestie!👭 • • We know the thirst is real but stop blowing up his/her phone • • Don’t be available all-the-time. Keep your own interests. • • • If you get an invite over know when to leave. It's time to go long before they start dropping hints. • • • In the early stages a marriage and kids convo is a no-go… save it • • • Don’t sacrifice much needed alone time or time with your (vibrator) ehem, friends for more face time with him/her. (Yes, guys use vibrators too) • Texting too early in the morning is a sin. You can’t tell me that you have nothing else to think about 1st thing in the morning than a girl or guy you just met? • • Don’t be fugazi. Trying to act like you like everything s/he’s into… it just plain tired • • Don’t spend money you don’t have or buy gifts/presents for no reason • • Please don’t invite them to a function or introduce them to your friends or family too early • • Last but not least… please don’t do the thirstiest of all thirsty moves and send/post scandalous pictures of yourself (might delete later) 🤣 • • • #ThirstyThursday #tea 🍵 #ThirstyAF #parched🏜 #Pressed #DoingTheMost #NoChill #StopCheckingYourPhone 👉👉👉 🛑✔🙅🏻‍♀️📱 #BrandNew #love 💗 #vibrator #newrelationship ♀️♂️♀️♀️♂️♂️ #thealluringviolet 💜💜💜
Valentine's Day is tomorrow. Feeling a bit bummed 🤷‍♀️ because you’re single? If Cupid’s arrow 🏹 missed you, not to worry. There’s so much more to look forward to in life besides being ‘boo-ed up” To be honest, many people in relationships wish they were single. •
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So, no gorging yourself with chocolates and Netflix and chilling by yourself. And absolutely no burning all of your ex's stuff. There are tons of things you can do besides fixating on the fact that you don’t have a Valentine.

If you’re rolling solo on February 14th, check out these five things you can spend the day (or night) doing.

Go out– A comedy show is a great way to spend the evening. Laughter is the best medicine after all. Bonus, this year Valentine’s Day is on a Thursday which means tickets for shows tend to be a bit cheaper. •
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Spend the day with people you actually like– Grab some of your friends and hit up your favorite karaoke spot and sing along to your favorite jams.Celebrating Valentine’s with friends can turn the holiday from something you detest into something that you truly enjoy.•
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Get some DRANKS– Drinking with your BFF is always a good time. Take this Valentine’s Day to toast to your ride or die, your one and only ’til-the-end-friend. You want to get really crafty? Sneak a tiny bottle into the movie theater. Or get in some retail therapy, Big Gulp + Vodka -because we all know it’s easier to justify spending all that cash when slightly buzzed.
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Plan a Galantine’s Day dinner– This is a great time to try a new restaurant. Pick a cheapThai spot or the like so you can all eat together without being locked into an inflated Valentine’s Day prix-fixe menu. It’s always a good time when there’s good food and your favorite lady bosses.•
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Be the object of your own desire👀– Show yourself some appreciation and Celebrate with yourself. Did somebody say spa day? Even if you don't have time to go to a Spa you can still indulge. Draw yourself a nice bath🛁, drop in some luxury bubble bath and let yourself sink into a stress-free Valentine’s Day. You deserve to take care of you, so do it! 
#ValentinesDay ❤
#valentine
#V-Day
#love
#VDayMeDay
#XOXO 💋
#cupid 🏹
#shop 
#thealluringviolet 💜
Valentine's Day is tomorrow. Feeling a bit bummed 🤷‍♀️ because you’re single? If Cupid’s arrow 🏹 missed you, not to worry. There’s so much more to look forward to in life besides being ‘boo-ed up” To be honest, many people in relationships wish they were single. • • So, no gorging yourself with chocolates and Netflix and chilling by yourself. And absolutely no burning all of your ex's stuff. There are tons of things you can do besides fixating on the fact that you don’t have a Valentine. If you’re rolling solo on February 14th, check out these five things you can spend the day (or night) doing. Go out– A comedy show is a great way to spend the evening. Laughter is the best medicine after all. Bonus, this year Valentine’s Day is on a Thursday which means tickets for shows tend to be a bit cheaper. • • Spend the day with people you actually like– Grab some of your friends and hit up your favorite karaoke spot and sing along to your favorite jams.Celebrating Valentine’s with friends can turn the holiday from something you detest into something that you truly enjoy.• • Get some DRANKS– Drinking with your BFF is always a good time. Take this Valentine’s Day to toast to your ride or die, your one and only ’til-the-end-friend. You want to get really crafty? Sneak a tiny bottle into the movie theater. Or get in some retail therapy, Big Gulp + Vodka -because we all know it’s easier to justify spending all that cash when slightly buzzed. • Plan a Galantine’s Day dinner– This is a great time to try a new restaurant. Pick a cheapThai spot or the like so you can all eat together without being locked into an inflated Valentine’s Day prix-fixe menu. It’s always a good time when there’s good food and your favorite lady bosses.• • Be the object of your own desire👀– Show yourself some appreciation and Celebrate with yourself. Did somebody say spa day? Even if you don't have time to go to a Spa you can still indulge. Draw yourself a nice bath🛁, drop in some luxury bubble bath and let yourself sink into a stress-free Valentine’s Day. You deserve to take care of you, so do it! #ValentinesDay ❤ #valentine #V-Day #love #VDayMeDay #XOXO 💋 #cupid 🏹 #shop #thealluringviolet 💜